How do you fairly split a restaurant bill?
Two defensible methods and a wrong one. Splitting evenly is fine and fastest when orders are roughly comparable, and the small differences even out across a friendship over time. Itemizing is correct when they are not, particularly when alcohol is involved, since drinks create the largest disparities and a non-drinker subsidizing a table's wine is the most common source of quiet resentment. The wrong method is having each person compute their own share independently, which produces rounding drift and a table that comes up short. Calculate the tip and tax on the full pre-split total, then divide, so the arithmetic reconciles.
A workable convention that avoids the negotiation entirely: split evenly on food, itemize alcohol. It handles the main source of imbalance without requiring anyone to audit a receipt line by line. A few situational rules worth stating plainly. Whoever proposed the dinner and chose an expensive restaurant should read the room rather than assume an even split works for everyone at the table. If you invited someone in a way that implied hosting, host. Splitting apps at the table are useful mostly for the ledger rather than the math, since the friction is social rather than computational. And if you are the person who orders the most expensive item and pushes for an even split, everyone has noticed, every time.
Split evenly when orders are similar and it saves everyone time. When one person had an appetizer, two drinks, and the steak, itemize. Calculate tax and tip on the full total first, then divide, to avoid rounding drift.
- Consumer Financial Protection Bureau
- Emily Post Institute
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